Christopher's Story - by his Mum, Jenny
Thank you for the opportunity to put pen to paper about our
experiences as Christopher was given his "new foot".
We were very fortunate in as much as the school was very
accommodating with any aspect of the process, even to the point
where we could drive up to the back door or Christopher's classroom
where there was a ramp that he could easily manage. The teacher
also made a point of a show and tell type of time where Christopher
was encouraged to show off his new appliances (plaster, AFO or the
frame), so the whole class was involved and understood what the
next stage involved.
A good time to get the frame on (we found) was a week before or
in the school holidays. This allowed time to get accustomed to the
new appliance and also work out any quirks before the routine of
getting to school and all that goes with that happens. I know this
isn't always going to happen, but it certainly helped us.
Never underestimate a child's resilience to change. They cope
better than we do sometimes! They enjoy that little extra
attention. Christopher never lost focus of why this was happening
and always thought of the long-term gains - he was going to kick
the soccer ball straight, or the footy to where he wanted it to go.
This, l think, is an individual trait but maybe reinforcement along
the way may help some children. The process does have an end and
hopefully everyone comes out with a much better outcome that when
they started.
The issue of the Disable Parking permit was huge bonus. We went
to the footy a couple pf times and the permit made it a most
enjoyable day, as we just had to park and not walk far at all.
Our only hiccup was when he got the infection, and that was the
only time he hinted at his dislike of his frame. A polo fleece
draw sting sack worked wonders in the Winter to keep his foot and
leg warm, but also at school so the little preps didn't get a
fright at the sight of it. It also helped in bed so the sheets
didn't get tangled up in the frame, (Grannies are good at making
these!!!).
The frame itself was an easy device to manage in the turning
department. Practice is the name of the game - it does not
bite!! And ask questions - l know you don't mind but some people
are anxious and feel silly. Leo putting the tags on to show which
way to turn was a bonus - you know forgetful mothers who get
flustered just need a reminder!!!
The care and thoughtfulness of the hospital staff was
exceptional. Prue the Physiotherapist made the exercises easy to
understand and all the nursing staff were open to questions. The
Orthotic staff we caring and explained everything very clearly.
We have come away with a very positive experience, and a
new foot. I only wish everyone could have as excellent treatment
and results as we have had. Our information session with Jacinta
was very helpful and l feel covered everything we needed to know at
that time. As the process progressed along we were informed of the
new elements involved. Never were we left in the dark.
There are some photos here of Christopher at this year's AFL
Grand Final, thee can be no stopping some people, and of his frame
taken on his way to school. He never missed out on outings as a
result of his frame. It may take a little time to get everything
organized but well worth it in the end. The only birthday party he
missed was a bowling party but he went along and watched the boys
bowl and then joined in the party food and the cake. I hope some of
this will be useful.
Jenny
ADDITION;
August 2004-09-01
Christopher is playing football and his team has made the finals -
he is very excited. The ball now goes where it is supposed to go
now with the "bionic foot"